Posts Tagged ‘love’

Defining Moments ~ Contagious Love: Wk.4

In a popular Muppet TV skit, “Pigs in Space,” Miss Piggy and friends are given the rare and beautiful opportunity to discover the meaning and purpose of life. All they have to do is wait one minute and all of the universe’s secrets will be revealed.

Unfortunately, 20 seconds into their wait the dinner gong rings. Swill Stroganoff, yum! The Space Pigs quickly balance the two choices in their minds, Swill Stroganoff or the meaning and purpose of life. Swill wins. Crazy, right?

There is a similar (without the pigs and the space part, of course) account in the Gospels. A rich young ruler comes to Jesus wanting to know how he can gain eternal life. Jesus, wanting to give this young man an opportunity to know what was truly in his heart, tells the ruler to sell all he owns, give it to the poor and follow Him.

I don’t know how long it took this gentleman to weigh his two options, money versus eternal life, but he did and money won. It seems crazy until we realize that we do this all the time, too.

This is battle that John is warning us about in I John 2:15-16:

Don’t love the world’s ways.
Don’t love the world’s goods.
Love of the world squeezes out love for the Father.
Practically everything that goes on in the world—

wanting your own way,

wanting everything for yourself,

wanting to appear important

—has nothing to do with the Father. It just isolates you from him.

Doing what my husband said to do versus having my own way is really a choice between obeying and abiding in God or following my selfish desires.

When tempted to buy a new purse at the store that I really don’t even want or need, the real question is, am I going to be a good steward of God’s money or will ‘retail therapy’ win?

Performing a good deed is a godly thing to do unless I turn it into an opportunity to mention it to others, secretly hoping they will be impressed with me.

Each of these decisions, and more, reflects the world’s way of thinking which has nothing to do with my Father, God. That kind of thinking only isolates me from Him.

Every choice matters. Each moment provides an opportunity to trust and abide in God by doing things His way. The battle is bigger than I think. Will I choose God or settle for Swill Stroganoff?

How about you? How can you prioritize your love for God above all else this week?

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Dust for Diamonds ~ Contagious Love: Wk. 2

This is my granddaughter, Peyton. I don’t want to offend any grandparents out there, but naturally, we consider Peyton to be the most brilliant and beautiful child in the entire world J. Having said that, she still has a lot to learn.

At six months old, Peyton has gone mobile. She can’t crawl yet but she does manage to wiggle her way into a lot of trouble. She has found a way to roll off the bed, balance her Bumbo seat on the counter’s edge and grab nearby electrical cords to chew on as she teethes. Wow – James Dobson was right when he said parenting wasn’t for cowards.

The point is that while Peyton thinks she wants every bright, shiny object within her reach, that shiny bauble could wound her forever. She needs someone older and wiser to take those things away. Yes, she will cry inconsolably for a few minutes and that will break her “Nina’s” heart, but it won’t change my mind. I have Peyton’s ultimate good as my goal.

For all our many years, we aren’t much wiser than that precious, precocious child. Fearing following God with all our heart, and mind and soul will be too costly, like Peyton, we easily trade in the treasure of intimacy with God for the passing baubles of the world.

We want to maintain just a tad of control, hang onto the comfort of convenience and protect our hearts from anything that causes pain. Deep down that lie from Eden’s garden still echoes in our ears. “Can God really be trusted to look out for my ultimate good? What harm will it do to reach out and take a bite of the fruit of life? It’s just a small bite. I’m smart enough to make my own choices. Somebody has to look out for number one.”

Chapter one of I John was written to warn us about that very thing. We can’t have intimate fellowship with God and walk in the darkness, too. Sin, any sin, is incompatible with the holiness of God. And while we may cry inconsolably when the bright, shiny promises of pride and pleasure, security and status, and the passing praise of men are taken away, it is the path to fullness of joy.

We proclaim to you what we ourselves have actually seen and heard so that you may have fellowship with us. And our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son, Jesus Christ. We are writing these things so that you may fully share our joyGod is light, and there is no darkness in him at all. I John 1:3-5

We need never fear relinquishing anything that gets in the way of our relationship with God, because God is light and He will never do us any harm.

When Satan whispers seductive lies in your ears, and the world’s treasures promise happiness beyond belief, trust God. He knows a better way. He is looking out for your ultimate good. And even in your pain, His joy will be there.

There is no limit to the goodness of God!


Contagious Love

The movie,Contagion, made its debut recently. I haven’t seen it, but I was intrigued by Wikipedia’s description of the plot line:

Contagion follows the rapid progress of a lethal airborne virus that kills within days. As the fast-moving pandemic grows, the worldwide medical community races to find a cure and control the panic that spreads faster than the virus itself.

Viruses are contagious and if they get a firm foothold they can be almost unstoppable.

As we begin our study of I John, we will discover something that is equally contagious but much more beneficial - God’s love. And just like the movie virus, God’s love can spell the difference between life and death.

Love is Critical

Let me explain…

An interesting study was done in 1943 investigating the mysterious deaths of infants in the Foundling Home. These babies had been cared for by trained nurses, daily examined by physicians, and visitors carefully washed their hands and wore sterile gowns. Yet by the end of two years, 34 of the original 91 infants had died. Why?

Dr. Spitz found the answer in an unexpected place. As an overworked nursing staff struggled to manage their workload, they had no time to spare for holding the babies, and even feeding time was handled impersonally by nurses propping up the bottles so the babies could feed themselves. The conclusion at the end of the study was that babies need a loving touch to thrive.

Love is not optional, it is critical. We were created to give and receive love.

But like the Foundling Home, the world can be a harsh and impersonal place. Instead of enjoying a deep love given by parents, family, friends and spouses, many have received only wounds instead.

You Are Loved

In spite of that, the good news is that we really are loved. Each of us has a heavenly Father who loves us without condition and without limit. But it’s hard to believe and rest in that kind of radical love when it’s a love that you’ve never seen or experienced in any other way.

So, as John begins this important letter to the church he begins by reintroducing us to the undeniable fact that we are radically loved. I John 3:16 puts it this way,

This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us.

And it gets better than that. God’s love is so vast and limitless that it does more than simply fill our hearts and meet our every need; it pours out of us to bless others as well. In the same verse, I John 3:16, John follows up his original thought with this one: This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.

Are You Loving Others?

God’s love is contagious.

Are you enjoying all there is to enjoy of this contagious love? Is your present experience of God’s love so great that you are willing to live and die for it? There is one way to know for sure – and that is by looking at your present relationships. How are you treating those around you? Your family? Your friends? Even your enemies? John teaches us that when you understand and receive the radical love of God it will spread to others.

I hope you will listen to the audio recording accompanying this lesson and continue with us in the study of I John so together we can know, fully experience and pass on more of God’s contagious love. You can pass it on by leaving your comments below.

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Fuel Your Passion for Jesus

by Kim Avery

You are a passionate person. How do I know? Because you were made in God’s image and He is passionate about you. This extraordinary relationship with God is to be the foundation and the fountain of everything else you ever say or do.

And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength.
Mark 10:30

All of you is to be centered around all of Him.

Yet busyness, mediocrity, and selfish dreams can easily dull reality causing us to settle for lives that are half-hearted, half-baked, heart-deadening, and void of life.

You were made for more.

The Abundant Life

Jesus came to bring us a real, vibrant, passionate, abundant life. In that life, we will cry hard, play hard, work hard, suffer hard, and laugh out loud. We will really know and experience love and life like no other people can. Passion.

Let’s determine today to do more than just sit home and wait for that ‘first love’ with Jesus to reappear and sweep us off our feet. Let’s make every day a ‘first love’ day.

Return to Your First Love

Ask yourself this question, “How can I cultivate a lifestyle that will cause me to fall in love with Jesus again and again and again?”

Here are some of my ideas:

Surround yourself with godly friends

Ask a more mature Christian to become your mentor

Set timer on your watch to remind yourself to pray every hour

Write a meaningful verse on a 3×5 card and carry it throughout the day

Play Christian radio

Spend more time in prayer as you pray before each meal

Read ‘Practicing the Presence of God’

Incorporate music and hymns into your devotional time

Begin each day with set aside time with the Lord

Focus on a different name of God each day

Find one thing you love about God for each letter of the alphabet (I do this as I fall asleep each night)

Talk about Him in casual conversation

Find Him in all the little things (sunrise, rainbows, phone calls from friends, etc.)

Have a date night with Jesus

We were created to have a passion for God and to pursue our passions in God with all our hearts, minds, souls, and strength.

What will you commit to doing this week to fuel your affection for Him?


Accepting Who God Created Me to Be – Part IV

by Kim Avery

Accepting who God created you to be is possible, and it is transforming. When you embrace the many ways that God loves you just as you are, it fills you with joy, contentment, purpose, and a renewed power to love others even as you are loved.

I Corinthians 14:1 exhorts us to, “Go after a life of love as if your life depended on it - because it does.”

That beautiful call has been our focus these past four weeks. Begin soaking in God’s radical love for you by reviewing what you have learned so far and then rejoice as we cover our two final truths. Don’t forget to replace each underlined pronoun with your name. There is great power in applying God’s promises to your own life.

1. God pursued me when I was at my worst

2. God paid a ransom for my life.

3. I am unique and uniquely valuable to God.

4. God is enthralled with my beauty.

5. I am one of the most important things God ever created.

6. God rejoices over me.

7. God sings over me.

8. God tells me His secrets.

These are life transforming truths. But for many an awareness of this firm foundation of a love hasn’t always been theirs. What can you do if your sense of God’s love is more like a fading echo in an empty canyon?

If that describes you, then you will be thrilled to hear the last two evidences that we are going to discuss today.

10 Evidences of God’s Love for Me ~ Part IV

9. He never gives up on me.

Yet this I call to mind
and therefore I have hope:
Because of the LORD’s great love we are not consumed,
for his compassions never fail.
They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.

Lamentations 3:21-23

Today is the day that God wants you to begin anew. He wants you to know Him. He longs to fill your days and moments with His purpose, love, and delight. His plan is for every moment to count.

Your past is simply that - past. Your future is Jesus and today is a new day. Choose to embrace the truth of His unconditional love.

10. I was made for a love relationship with God.

Come, all you who are thirsty,
come to the waters;
and you who have no money,
come, buy and eat!
Come, buy wine and milk
without money and without cost.
Why spend money on what is not bread,
and your labor on what does not satisfy?
Listen, listen to me, and eat what is good,
and your soul will delight in the richest of fare.

Give ear and come to me;
hear me, that your soul may live.
Isaiah 55:1-3

God loves you so much that He is stretching out His arms of invitation today, “Come to Me and live.”

Accepting who God made you to be all begins with this amazing awareness, you were made for a love relationship with Him.

You are loved!

Which one of these evidences of God’s love speaks to you today? I hope you will take a minute to share your thoughts in the comment box below.

Previous Articles in Be All That God Created You To Be:
Find Joy Right Where You Are
What You Can’t Be When You Grow Up
Be All That God Created You to Be ~ Goals to Consider
Accepting Who God Created You to Be – Part I
Be All That God Created You to Be ~ More Goals to Consider

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