The story is told about an old man who was becoming increasingly concerned about his wife’s hearing. He was convinced that she was on the verge of being stone deaf. But no matter what he did, she wouldn’t admit there was a problem.
After months of trying to convince her, he had had enough and decided to prove his point. He entered their living room where his wife was seated, facing the fireplace. From behind her he said in a clear voice, “Honey, I love you. Did you hear that?”
Nothing.
He walked halfway across the room and repeated, “Honey, I said I love you. Do you hear me?”
No response.
Finally he walked over, stood in front of her, and shouted, “I love you. Can you hear me now?”
She looked up from her knitting and replied, “Yes, dear, and for the third time, I love you, too.”
I often act like the husband in that parable. There are times in my life when I’m convinced that God is not talking to me. But in reality, if my relationship with God is distant, I am the one who moved.
We all want to hear from God. To know His will. To feel His love. But like any relationship, growth doesn’t take place automatically. Instead, a deep relationship with God requires an overall approach to life in which we organize our day around staying close to him.
Here are some habits that will help you as you seek God.
1. Make Time. Listening takes time. Relationships can’t be rushed.
2. Minimize Distractions. Minimize any external clutter that distracts you as you talk to God. Give Him your full attention. What could be more important than listening to the author of life?
3. Be Silent. Stop talking and take time to listen.
4. Have a Receptive Heart. Be open to receiving what He has to say, not just His words of tender mercy but also His challenges that will help you grow.
God is not about quick answers and microwave relationships. What He wants is to develop a relationship with you that will be constant, intimate, conversational and transforming.
He is waiting right now. How about you?
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Tags: *Kim Avery, God, listening for God, relationship with God
